According to Albert Einstein, the definition of insanity is
doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. Based
on that, how many of us are insane? How
many of us have talked to a guy or been in a relationship, made the same
mistakes and expected things to be different that time? I know I have.
I was inspired at church this Sunday by our youth pastor who
said, “If you keep getting smacked around by every boyfriend you get with, it’s
probably not them, and you may need to change something within yourself.” It
got me thinking about the kinds of people I attract. I run into Mr. Unavailable
a lot, but why? Then it hit me! I’m Miss Unavailable! I’m not open with my
feelings…with ANYBODY. Hell, I don’t even really know what I want right now.
How can I expect to find someone who’s ready to settle down and knows exactly
what they want if I don’t know myself? So, I’ve decided to focus on figuring
out what it is that I want. In all areas of my life, like the type of friends I
want. The kind that judge you and talk behind your back, or the ones that love
you no matter what and encourage you to do what’s best whether you want to hear
it or not. The people I want to
associate myself with in general. Will I hang out with people who aren’t doing
anything and don’t have goals or one’s who strive to be better? This week is
about bettering ourselves, learning from our mistakes, and making changes the
will benefit us in the future. Think about the situations you repeatedly find
yourself in. Is it something you can change or is it everyone else around you?
What will you change?
4/22/13
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